Morals and Values...

I never realized how hard it would be to live and be married to someone who has different morals and values that I have...

I am NOT saying that my husband by any means was raised as a horrible person or that his parents raised him to be a bad person. Honestly his parents did a great job...

It's just that we have different values, we agree to disagree a lot of the time... I find religion very important. I grew up going to church every Sunday. I believe in having only enough to what you need. I do agree that having money and getting all of the things that you want... but if you make enough with room to still do what you want I am great with having only what I need. Kyle grew up differently, which is great. I am happy with that. I guess it just gets hard when we are trying to decide something. I guess that means that we really do have to do rock paper scissors on a lot of things...

We just have different opinions or ideas of things. Even things that we both like...

Kyle loves modern things new technology the never ending race to get things faster and easier..
Me I love "Vintage" I love bracing where we came from a reminder of the people who have given us what we have..

Kyle loves cars, nice cars, fast cars, race cars anything that will go fast and make others jealous.. (When I first met him he had the fastest car in our high school.)
Me I love trucks, Old trucks. (Though I would love an old super beetle.) It isn't about the horse power but about the ride. No one is ever jealous of my cars..

Kyle loves Basketball.
I love Baseball.

You get the idea...

There are things that we both like. A lot more then you would think... I guess I just get caught up in wanting him to be more like me and less like him... It's not that I do it intentionally, We are learning to compromise learning to accept each other. He and I have talked about how we get mad at each other for the same things because we wanted the other one to agree with us, wanting to get what we wanted and not getting it. which is OK...

Everything will be OK.

Christin

Over and Out.